I LOVE YOU AND WANT TO SPEND THE REST OF MY LIFE WITH YOU

I LOVE YOU AND WANT TO SPEND THE REST OF MY LIFE WITH YOU

It’s not just a “you” and “me” in our project. From now on; we are a “we” with everything that we have both been carrying and loving from our past and projecting into our future, with what we are acquiring along the way….!
TRUE MEANING OF MARRIAGE — It’s pretty easy to say “I’m getting married but what’s difficult is learning to live as a couple. In the long run, marriage is more than just a union of two people for the purpose of creating a family; it’s an irrevocable contract based on love and trust, which requires hard work on both parts.
The initial enthusiasm of the relationship is reduced and it lands in reality which is nothing more than reciprocal acceptance of the virtues and flaws in each other.
LIVING TOGETHER IS AN EXCELLENT WAY OF GETTING TO KNOW ONE ANOTHER — It provides the satisfaction of having everything with someone who lights up your life. DOMESTIC LOVE, ONES ESTABLISHED TURNS EVERYTHING INTO REALITY…Marriage can be compared to a school in which we learn the best thing in life: to give and to receive. LOVE MUST BE LEARN. THE LESSON REQUIRES TIME, BUT IF YOU PERSEVERE, YOU WILL LEARN. Isn’t that how we manage all the other aspect of our lives.
“At first we start getting to know each other and to interact, but it is only when we move in with our partner that we put the love lesson into practice”. Each one of you is an independent adult separate from the family in which you grew up, and each must learn new ways of relating in the context of this new family. THERE ARE RESTRICTIONS THAT LIVING TOGETHER AS A COUPLE IMPOSES — Being in a marriage requires that you limit certain activities that you had freely enjoyed as a single person to make the new relationship our priority. NB.-“THERE IS NO EASY PATH TO HAPPINESS IN MARRIAGE, LOVE’S BIGGEST ENEMY IS SELFISHNESS, NOT YOUR PARTNER’S BUT YOUR OWN”. Differences in lifestyle should not develop into future conflicts they should be addressed beforehand and basic agreements and compromises should be made. EACH MEMBER OF THE COUPLE MUST FACE THE FACT THAT HE OR SHE IS NO LONGER LIVING AT HOME AS A CHILD. NOW YOU AR SOMEONE ELSE’S PARTNER AND THE TWO OF YOU WILL SHARE YOUR TIME, LOVE, MONEY AND EVERYTHING ELSE.

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