JUST FOR THE SINGLES

JUST FOR THE SINGLES…A must read

Sometimes people say, “I don’t want to commit until I can be sure this thing that worries me about you won’t be a problem.” I’ve heard variations of this from both men and women in my years as a couples therapist. Popular deal breakers include religion, money, kids, time, and sexuality. There’s no better way to scare off a potential partner than to suggest he or she is inadequate with respect to any of these, or to insist that partner prove himself/herself before security is assured. This kind of approach is doomed to failure.

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